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I need you to understand that the very straight and immediate line from someone's very confident "I don't like mice/I've handled mice before so I know what they're like" to joyous wonder as they hold the first calm, friendly mouse they've ever held and murmur "they're so soft/sweet/warm/gentle" practically to themselves is basically a drug
"I work at a petstore," says the young man with much disdain, "so I don't really need to hold another one. I know what they're like."
"These aren't petstore mice," I say, as I turn my hand over and the mouse holds on tighter. "They're not like any mouse you've ever held," I say, as I close my hand gently around the mouse and flip her onto her back for a second so I can touch her mouth and demonstrate how difficult it would be to get one of my mice to bite.
"I'm sure you've handled them extensively from a very young age, though."
"They haven't been handled before today, except to be moved into clean cages." She arranges herself in my hand and cleans her face. "Are you sure you don't want to hold one?"
He opens his hands, and she pours from my hand into his like a viscous liquid. She is soft and warm and sweet, and his entire face lights up when she hunkers down onto his warm hand and closes her eyes.
"....She's changing my mind."
"They tend to do that when you leave it open."
He took her and two companions home.
#mice#mouse#my pets#I LOVE bringing my mice to expos you have no idea how cool it is#the CONFIDENCE that they know what mice are about#the DISGUST I see from people can be unreal#but so many of those people come over to prove me wrong#and immediately 180#I don't know what people expect mice to feel like#my favorite are the little kids who accept the mouse into their hands#and handle them more casually than any adult#while their parent stresses and has to be reassured that the mouse won't jump#and the mice just. tolerate being manhandled. they just chill about it#they are not as chill about it with adults but little kids idk they just act different toward them#anyway I had a blast today#once again the mice were superstars there was not straight 5 minutes in a row#where I did not have a crowd around my table#I think the highest out count was 6 mice in hands at a time#personal#stories about ked's life
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failure and futility
for day 2 of campfire fest! prompt: third eye (and i guess could also count for explosion, or a lack thereof lol) @outerwilds-events
#i meant to do something yesterday but i had a crazy shift at work and was feeling lazy lol#anyways. pye and idaea after the probe didn't work#this line of text is the first thing that comes to mind for 'third eye' for me bc its the only evidence/in-game mention of the nomai's -#- third eye being special/different from the other two in some way. im curious if it is actually composed differently and has better vision#or if it is just better for seeing fine details in things directly in front of them since it is forward-facing as opposed to -#- being on the sides of their head#also i just think about these two a lot. can you imagine being co-leaders of the most difficult and controversial part of a massive project#that is so important to so many people including your friends family members and ancestors who have died in search of what you are -#- going to potentially destroy your entire clan while attempting to find#you are building a weapon intended to destroy yourself and the entire star system you were born in#and your co-leader is the person with quite possibly the most opposite opinions and disposition to you#idaea having to grapple with the fact that the failure of something he never wanted to exist in the first place is still upsetting to him -#- because despite their differences he still sympathizes with pye who was so confident and wanted it to work so badly#and both of them as well as anyone else working at the sun station put so much time and energy into constructing it#and that work was so miserable due both to the heat and the tension due to their differing opinions and their own mixed feelings on it#pye having to admit defeat to everyone else working on the project who were so excited for this to finally give them the answer#in front of idaea who was so convinced that it was a bad idea and who she was probably desperate to prove wrong#in front of the entire crew of people who had spent probably months in miserable working conditions#after she had been so confident that it would work and so insistent that this was the only way#and she had to admit not only that it failed but that it couldn't possibly work. that deep down she knew and had probably known for a while#- that it would never work and had continued working on it anyway because she wanted it to work so bad#anyways. the fucking brainworms#tried out a new style for this and i really like how it turned out#outer wilds#outer wilds spoilers#outer wilds nomai#frostgnaw draws
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KNOCK OUT (2025) หมัดน็อกล็อกหัวใจ dir. Tee Bundit Sintanaparadee
#knock out the series#knock out series#knock out#knockoutedit#dech narongdet#clairedaring#zeystuff#gif: knockout#didn't really planned to make this so only tagging claire...#but my poor boy is going through things :( ... mawin confessed and itt ditched. like mawin keeps the relationship secret#so it must've taken a lot of courage to confess your feelings in front of everybody even tho only itt heard what he said#but it's about the surrounding. when they're alone they're safe and in their own world. feels like an escapeism from the reality#and itt is okay with that. but being surrounded by people is different. more real. and mawin was soo confident. ready. courageous.#he truly wanted to support itt in every way he can. so he chose the way of affirmiation of words which helped...#now mawin overthinks if he did something wrong. if he's the reason why itt disappeared and it truly breaks my heart... :(#he worries so much. he cares so much about itt...#like this is only one scene and I know for sure it will get more uglier before we get a happy ending between them#it's gonna be a rollercoaster of emotions and tbh not sure if I'm ready like I said I am
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donna’s inherent honesty vs dick’s tendency to be manipulative.. speak to me
#dick grayson#donna troy#wonder twins#his manipulativeness being the thing about dick that most bothers donna#vs donna’s willingness to be honest about uncomfortable things being one of the things dick most admires about her..#!!!!!#like donna is just very emotionally honest in a way most heroes aren’t.#if she’s having a bad time and someone asks hey what’s wrong what’s going on. she will answer and be honest!! instead of giving#some bullshit ‘im fine :D’ response#meanwhile dick…… Does Not Do That#except with donna! one of the few people he trusts enough to feel comfortable confiding in!#they’re so!!
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the thing that doesn't make sense to me regarding the "he was putting her career on the line" POV is that there's no previous behavior from abbot that makes that believable to me. abbot faked a teenager's exams (w/o her knowledge) so she could get an abortion, told another doctor said teenager was getting back for the pills and didn't seem to care that robby could very easily find out what he did, reprimanded but immediately praised santos for doing a risky procedure she wasn't allowed to and took every opportunity he got to do procedures the hospital board wouldn't allow on the daily. nothing from his behavior told me he would put someone else's career on the line with something we were shown he's very capable of doing. add that to mohan's arc this season and the possibility of that POV being the case becomes nonexistent to me. it never even crossed my mind before checking what people were saying about the episode. i read it as a joke bc nothing else shown would tell me it wasn't.
comparing it to robby and david's situation: it was Not a surprise how robby reacted after david was proven innocent from the shooting. he was a bit more asshole-ish to how he'd probably react in a normal day, especially after a breakdown, but where he stood on the whole situation was not new. we were shown and told robby could react like that; we were shown and told abbot didn't care about what could happen to him or his career if a patient's health was on the way
#the pitt making me briefly come back to tumblr is crazyyyyy#out of all tv shows coming out a fucking medical series is what did it this is the end of the world#obviously to each their own#but i didnt see anyone point out how it never felt like we were supposed to see the scene in that way when looking at the whole series#i have to repeat the 1st interaction we got of him with a patient IS him putting his career on the line so a teenager can get an abortion#that alone took any malicious intent that could possibly exist in that scene to me#her nickname is slowmo they're in a mass casualty situation she HAS to act faster she HAS to trust her capability#and shipping or not shipping them it was an attending in a studying hospital encouraging and guiding a resident to trust her skills#it just felt more like a high point to mohan's confidence arc than him being a dick yk?#also theres no way abbot's ass wouldn't be on the line if smth did go wrong#he was the higher rank he was the one who told mohan to do it he was the one physically stopping another attending on taking over the case#walsh would NOT let him get away with it or blame it on mohan she's too much of a hater for that#also i think its funny how no ones talking about walsh clearly sideeyeing mohan after the stoner thing#she HATES being wrong and she WILL make it everyone's problem if she's ever proven wrong (not that she'll admit it)#soso special to me dr walsh i love you with all my heart#the pitt#samira mohan#jack abbott#abbot x mohan#the pitt spoilers
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4MINUTES (2024) EP. 6 DEAR MY SECRETARY (2025) EP. 13
#4 minutes#4 minutes the series#greattyme#dear my secretary#dear my secretary confident boss and reliable secretary#dmsedit#what's wrong with secretary kim Thailand#bua nalinthip#jes jespipat#bible wichapas#raeblr#userspring#userbenka#thaidrama#dramasource#fyeahthaidramas#userbeoncloud#usergzh#tansedits#gifs:fourm#extremely funny to me that last post was great's fantasy // preem's reality#meanwhile this one is great's reality // preem's fantasy#i love being alive and winning
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I find it hard to imagine a reality where voldemort views harry as an equal? I think the point at which they are in the books voldemorts eclipsed the capabilities of your average wizard by leagues and has far more experience than harry. he views harry as someone who is more of a nuisance he has to get rid of before he begins his world dominating expedition.
there was a prophecy about this
#asks#what is the objective of being so confidently wrong in my inbox anyway. asserting your opinion isnt going to make me change mine
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Ok so Wild and Wars are going together in the dungeon right? And that's great for them (maybe), but I ALSO want to talk about how Time and Four are going together!!
Because of THIS

(from doodles pt.3-link (heh))
Most of us have seen this before I think- and I've seen people saying they want confirmation on if it's Time saying 'you never cease to impress me little one' or not. The older doodles are still said to be canon- so I ALSO would like confirmation on it.
Also there's this ask from a bit ago!

The ask mentioned Time knowing about the four sword- and Jojo didn't correct them or say otherwise, and said most have confided in him. So I think it's reasonable to assume Time knows Four's secret from the doodle. And I want to see it in the story!!! and they're going together in the dungeon! (with Wind too of course!!)
also small brag that I guessed and said months ago that I wanted Time and Four to go together. They have Wind too, and I am VERY excited bc I wanted to see them together and now they ARE fhxvfgxgdgd
Obviously we don't know what Jojo's planning, and I have no idea if this will come up or not. But it'd be really cool wouldn't it?
Art by Jojo @linkeduniverse au
:)
#linkeduniverse#linked universe#lu time#lu four#I've been wanting to rant about this for so long#they're going together they're going together they're going together#the tallest and the shortest#time literally swings his sword over fours head while fighting#peak comedy and stuff oh my gooooooosh#hehehehehehehe#also worth noting that simply being around four is practically therapeutic because of his awesome calming nature#which Time really needs right now#I wanna see Four demand to know what's wrong and make Time confide in him like he has to Twilight twice now lol#which probably won't happen but#I LOVE THEM#I LOVE SEEING TIME WITH THE YOUNGER AND SHORTER ONES HES SO HAPPY AROUND THEM#YEAH#I love them so much TT#I don't scream as much in the post so I get to in the tags#bye lol#hugs to all if I said anything offensive as usual let me know#<33
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WAIT ACTUALLY THIS WAS DIABOLICAL OF THEM

transcript under the cut:
Angie x Peggy
Peggy cannot force herself to leave Captain America's blood behind, so she returns to the Griffith--even though she knows it's the first place the SSR will look for her. When the agents arrive, she's forced to climb onto her window ledge to hide. She's rescued by Angie, who immediately leaps into an incredible enactment of emotional trauma to throw Thompson and Sousa off the trail. It's one of the few times Peggy is the rescued--not the rescuer.
"Peggy loves other women--she's not competitive with them," Hayley Atwell says. "She believes in them; she wants to look after them as much as they look after her. She has that sisterhood."
Angie's tearful performance mirrors Peggy's use of the period excuse in "Now Is Not the End," and so does the reaction. The men instantly go into panic mode. If for no other reason, women in Marvel's 1940s need to be treated as equals so the men of the SSR will stop being fooled by them.
But at the height of her triumphant moment, Peggy is dropped by the woman she least expected: Dottie.
#actually flipping through the s1 book a little and this stopped me like a brick fucking wall#'Angie x Peggy' 'peggy loves other women' 'PEGGY BEING RESCUED'#they knew what that meant and they knew how we felt and they knew it wasnt happening but they did it anyway#i don't use the term queerbait lightly but this is the case i feel most confident in bc WHAT THE FUCK ELSE WAS THAT!!!#(and then the very next page goes on to talk about how the dottie kiss was the first kiss in the show which...gay rights AND gay wrongs)#my kingdom for a hour with lyndsy fonseca to find out what the fuck really happened behind the scenes here#but also and perhaps most importantly#I MISS THEM SO MUCH#cartinelli#agent carter
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“they say they don’t know who i am anymore/well i just have never shown anger before” is that not Jesper in the scene with Colm when he finally comes clean about his gambling and they talk about him being grisha
#noah kahan and his very specific yet relateable lyrics have done it again#okay no but we’re gonna talk about this. because ive been thinking about it.#jesper is generally characterized as someone who goes with the flow#he does what people tell him to#hes funny and friendly and everyone likes him#but matthias calls him ‘angry and frightened’ and its a complete contrast to how jesper is and how he percieves himself#but not because its wrong. matthias is actually very right#but jesper has terrible self esteem and is about as much of a people pleaser as a person can be#he comes across as very confident and easy going because thats the kind of person other people like and god does he want people to like him#he was taught from a young age to repress the parts of himself that other people dont like (being grisha) because its safer#and that included repressing his very natural righteous anger. which built resentment and made him even angrier#think of when he and wylan go to olendaal#jesper finds out theyve been deceived by kaz he doesnt really care. not until he think about how it messed with wylan#then he gets mad#but because kaz fucked with wylan and at the end of the day jesper is a good person#and his anger comes out for other people because protecting other people is more okay than protecting himself#i have no idea if this makes sense im just yapping#jesper fahey#colm fahey#six of crows#crooked kingdom#shadow and bone tv
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Why is the anime so weird, it's not even the same series dude?? It's like,
Anime:
GOKU: I have a great idea to bring peace to the universe, and my leadership and compassion alone will unite us all. I have No Flaws and am A True Relatable Everyman :)
VEGETA: NO! I AM THE BEST AND I WILL CAUSE PROBLEMS UNTIL I AM RECOGNIZED AS SUCH!!!!
Manga:
GOKU: Vegeta what's cornmeal made of? I know it's what the corn eats, but what's it made of? VEGETA: Hey Kakarot let's play the quiet game until one of us dies.
#dbtag#I do not understand this writing it's so bad aklsdlkasjd#Toei wants Goku to be Clark Kent SO bad and he SO isn't lmao#they're so good and dumb and rounded and complex in the manga what is the anime so afraid of#Toriyama said 'no no this man is a detached faux-immortal who has a dear pure heart but he's childlike and selfish even though he's kind'#and toei went 'got it goku's never done anything wrong ever in his life'#toriyama said 'Vegeta's gone through a lot and he's finally settling into his more mature leadership role with the confidence he's earned'#and toei said 'got it vegeta has the confidence of a high school bully except now he can interact with his family as a comedy bit'#girl hWHAT#Toei trying to group Goku and Vegeta as two people who would rather train than be with their families and Toriyama said NO Vegeta wants#to be HOME this is the first time in years that he's HAD ONE and it makes him HAPPY to be with his wife and children!!#Vegeta trains so that he can protect the things he doesn't want to lose again and Goku trains because it's the thing that makes him happies#They are NOT the same lmao And yeah Vegeta still wants to beat Goku but he also knows that Gohan could dogwalk both of them if he wanted#He also knows Trunks and Goten are going to surpass them it's not about being the best anymore he's past that he just wants to Not Need Gok#He just doesn't want to have to rely on Goku to save the day he wants to be Enough on his own he just wants to know he can be#because every time it's mattered he WASN'T and people he loved were lost to his inability to protect them and he carries that#Like Whis diagnosed him with anxiety and cptsd out in the open and Beerus said he was self-centered for feeling guilt#+ he lowkey enjoys the rivalry it keeps him goal-oriented so he can't get complacent and lazy which is what triggered his Buu Saga breakdow#realized how Fucked Up it was that having a home and loving family made him feel like he was failing and went 'wait no I won actually??'#now he's chill as fuck in the manga. cool confident leader.#and sometimes he is childish and dumb with Goku as a treat#you know what rocks about his rivalry with Goku in Super though is that it's Playful. Vegeta is learning how to Play.#You ever seen a shelter dog get introduced to a really playful dog and it takes a minute for the shelter dog to understand it's safe here#And then they're both running around the backyard playing hot potato with one braincell?? That's Goku and Vegeta's relationship#and the way the anime sleeps on that dynamic is so fucking criminal especially when it's literally canon it's in print it's out there#you had the playbook how'd you fumble it this bad#anyway that's my 25+ year blorbo thoughts I love Geets a lot okay#And I love Goku in the manga a lot I'd forgotten that he's actually a great character when Toei's not fucking up his whole vibe
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Arthur saves people and it justifies his wealth and power. Merlin saves people and it’s a lowly peasant trying to be important. I see how it is 🚬-_-
#fandom critical#like yeah merlin is an unreliable narrator… he thinks that arthur is going to become better LOL#but this person spends all their time defending arthur refusing to lift the ban so that’s clearly not what they take issue with#i wish i could remember exactly what i blocked them for :/#they’re one of those merthurs who puts on a gwen pfp to avoid accusations but never talks about her + wants her gone from the story#unless it’s to emphasize that arthur could never possibly be interested in her and was never in love with her and to otherwise devalue her#importance to the characters (only white boys can move people emotionally ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS!!!)#merlin is also the Reluctant Hero archetype from the start… he accepts his narrative role eventually sure but he still doesn’t see himself#as The Hero. he sees Arthur as the Important one. he does not have a hero complex he is just trying to help LMAO there is such a difference#fellas is every instance of doing the right thing a sign that you have a Complex or Fetish?#we have to stop like. medicalizing human existence. or whatever this is… idk at this point :/ touch grass#but anyways his speech in 1x05 should’ve disillusioned anyone and everyone of thinking he has a Savior Complex come on now#fellas is it wrong to be uniquely positioned to save someone’s life. fellas is it wrong to try to end the genocide against your people#despite your misgivings/lack of self-confidence#dear god. pick up a book#also the sheer double standard where arthur’s heroism (propagating that arthur has earned being king therefore unequal wealth/power)#is treated as natural and goes unquestioned#whereas merlin’s is held under such horrendous scrutiny. it is OBVIOUSLY classist.#arthur is trying to justify inequality by justifying to himself that he’s ‘earned’ his higher status by Being A Hero#meanwhile merlin is saving everyone including arthur himself with no reward and no recognition simply in the hopes that it ends the wars#namely the war against magic#it’s just such a shallow brainwashed read i needed to waterboard it 😭
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knowing pomnis favorite color is red makes me emotional and also slightly more in love with her, for some reason
#knowing facts about her makes me inexplicably giddy about her existence i think somethings wrong with me#like i dont even care that much abt the color red like its a good color but its not even it being her favorite color i think its just like.#knowing trivia about her#im obsessed with her it genuinely brings me to the verge of tears.#sorry everyone... pomni makes me feel very romantic and also prone to saying strange things i dont know what it is about her#dont know why im apologizing actuqally. its my blog and i feel like if you follow a lesbian who repeatedly talks abt how obsessed thing is#with a fictional character#idk why anyone would be surprised or annoyed that i state this#anyway her favorite color is redddddd... wow....#i need to know all there is to know about her please please pelase please please plese#looking at her with huge normal eyes and so kindly ok...#pomniiiiiiiiiiii#i gotta make a tag for this jic anyone ends up liking my posts#but wanting to maybe bl my gushing...#i mean its not really important but maybe i should#sorry i got distracted again im thinking about her......#sighs dreamily.#this is me toning my rambling down ftr i Want to be weirder abt her#but that also frightens me#i dont want 300+ people to watch me be TOO strange abt her thats scary...#atm i lack access to all my meds so i cant even like#easily go in public alone i get really scared. not of anything happening i just Get Scared#because of something to do with people i think??? i dont really know why#how am i supposed to be too weird in front of so many ppl even on the internet......#i try my best. i should be weirder#to do list: be weirder about pomni to practice being more confident socially
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I had heard of toxic masculinity before, but this was one of the first times I think I've ever encountered delusional masculinity.
At Wednesday meetings at work, when we go around and give project updates, we also answer a popcorn question. This week it was, "What is the largest animal you think you could take in a fight?" And good lord. Here are some of the answers men in my department gave:
dog - he's clearly never seen a K9 training video
kangaroo "cause they've got those little boxing gloves!" yeah and they're ripped as hell and will kick you into next week
horse - never seen statistics on how many people are killed by being kicked in the head, I guess
a mountain lion - wtaf dude
"I'm gonna be humble and say a gorilla." THEY'RE SIX HUNDRED POUNDS YOU IDIOT
#masculinity#delusional masculinity#men#wtf#dangerous animals#i said the largest animal i would have ANY confidence in being able to beat in a fight was a human#and even then it would very much depend on the circumstances#what is wrong with these people#a fucking MOUNTAIN LION????????
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You know, I feel like other trans people might get this, but it's honestly kind of refreshing when a cis person has, like, undeniable tboy/tgirl/whatever swag. It's like when you come across somebody who speaks the same language as you and you only find out when they start speaking it, too.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#all this to say that we are existing on a rock hurling through space#and this universe is going to collide into another and does it all truly matter in the end?#a lot of this is based on ideas we have about what constitutes certain people and i think it can be a fun observation#so long as you do not inherently ascribe certain traits as being indicative of who somebody Is#it can be amusing when you're SO confident that somebody is a certain way until you realize how Wrong you were#the amusement for me only comes because it's like... 'you tried your best to box somebody and you FAILED lmao'#and in a weird way it's kind of comforting because it reminds me that we all come into this world with bias that Will be challenged...#...so the best thing you can do is recognize those biases and then try to overcome them through great effort...#...so yes maybe i did think that cis dude had tboy swag but. that's not inherently his problem you know?#it probably just means he's confident in his manhood in a way that reminds me of the trans men* i know and love#i noticed that in him and it reminded me of my friends who are trans so i think 'oh! maybe that's why he's giving off those vibes!'#so while i won't treat him any differently before or after finding out i was wrong i'm still going to appreciate the fact that...#...he and i are literally just Vibing on the same planet and we both don't have time for petty arguing about manhood#i'll acknowledge what inspired those thoughts in me but that is Not his problem and that's good and beautiful actually#i don't always mind the tboy/tgirl swag meme just so long as you don't treat it like an Inherent Trans Experience Only Trans People Have#just recognize where those ideas are inspired from and it's fine <3#sometimes you will be Wrong and that's actually fucking neutral <<3#anyway rant over i just think this is /generally/ harmless and fun#like astrology. sometimes you just look up your star sign without ascribing your Entire Life to it <3#i think what i lot of people mean by saying a cis person has tboy/tgirl swag is just that...#...that cis person has an understanding of themself that comes from deep introspection that isn't necessarily expected of cis folk...#...but it is often something trans people do as part of our exploration of gender...#how is this the FIRST POST to reach tag limit... ask me for more thoughts if you want lol!
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"Ganondorf is the avatar of power, he would never show any weakness, he is incapable of any sort of genuine kindness, he should be written as someone who is always in a position of dominion and invulnerability because someone like Ganondorf could never be any other way-" Honestly, skill issue.
#being vulnerable isn't just about being a crybaby that wears their heart on their sleeve#I would in fact argue that Ganondorf is very vulnerable#his emotions are erratic and change at the drop of a hat#you can easily rattle him if you know what sets him off#he has a plan and is confident in his plans#but the second one thing goes wrong he completely fucking loses it#compare that to Link who will be faced with the worst circumstances and adapt without breaking a sweat#ganonthots
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